I know some of you divas out there, reading this blog on a regular basis have a need to take notes on tips and advices on being or becoming a diva. Now, you can.
What you will do is start your own diva journal, this will be your personal journal record your experiences , what you learned form the blog, how you develop yourself as a diva mentally, spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically, also your personal plans and goals you want to accomplish to earn your divaship. Also, you will start a diva workbook to take down notes and tips from the blog and from videos I posted as cross reference guides every weekend, plus you will copy weekly assignments which you will do like homework. All you need is two notebooks. Spiral, composition, or looseleaf will do nicely. You can also add a folder for extra work such as projects, drawings, your pictures on your progress and growth in your divaship, or you can save printed information from Divaism blog or any diva blogs online.
The core of this assignment for you to begin your own personal journey to grow and develop yourself into a diva you're meant to be. The workbook will you blueprint, your personal map and the journal will be your guide in your journey. You are now at your starting point, in a seed stage. It will take a lot of hard work, dedication, drive, patience, persistence, perseverance, and commitment to develop, grow and blossom like a beautiful flower. There will be no flower in the future without a seed planted today. So plant yourself today obtaining these to notebooks, title your notebooks with your name and your chosen diva title and label one DIVA JOURNAL and the other DIVA WORKBOOK, always write down the current dates every you write something new in your journal or do your new assignments in your workbook. And prepare yourself for your journey. It begins now.
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Thursday, November 29, 2012
Monday, November 19, 2012
Seven principles a diva lives by
In order to claim your own divaship, you have to learn and apply the principles of a diva for yourself. There are seven that are important and easy to use.
1. Trendy
2. Poise
3. Attitude
4. Wisdom
5. Compassion
6. Charitable
7. Appearance
1. Trendy: Attend local fashion shows or make one up. Invest in purchasing fabrics patterns trimmings and crafts to create your own clothes and accessories. You can have some of your friends who are talented in fashion design or sewing to help do the work with you. Spend time in craft stores to create your own jewelry and accessories. Take classes on design in fashion, cosmetics and hair dressing. Purchase many drawing and sketch books or download programs to create your own style of clothing. Subscribe to fashion hairstyle and beauty magazines or websites. Use virtual makeovers to create new looks that match your style. Make friends with with local or aspiring fashion designers, makeup artists, hairstylists, tailors, and photographers (students who study these fields are more affordable).
2. Poise: Have some good posture while walking, sitting or standing (chests pushing forward, shoulders rolled back, tummy tucked in). Keep your head up high, facing forward. Sit with your knees together or ankles crossed ( absolutely, no legs crossed at your thighs if you're wearing a knee length skirt or dress). Smile with respect to every person you greet.
3. Attitude: Love and respect yourself as you are. Have some self confidence and self esteem. Walk proud. Think only positive thoughts and express only positive feelings. Never act snobbish and stuck up. Try reading some spiritual affirmations to inspire some self esteem. Take some lessons on etiquette.
4. Wisdom: You must take education seriously because knowledge and wisdom are power. If you're in school, put studies and homework before anything else. Never cheat on your tests and exams. Get a good mentor to help you stay on the right path. Get a tutor for extra help if you're struggling in school. Attending school on time that shows that shows that you're serious about your education. Study hard to pass all of your exams. Keep your grades high. Take all you have learned to heart to become successful in the long run.
5. Compassion: Respect everyone the way you respect yourself. Talk and be nice to people no matter how different they are from you. Don't lose your temper when someone makes a mistake on you. Never bully or push people around, blackmail them to get your way like mean girls do. Say only kind and positive words to people at all times. Make good compliments on what they do and accomplished and not on just what they wear. Proper language is important, negative language with profanity is not allowed regardless of where you come from and under all circumstances, avoid gossip.
6. Charitable: Always put people first, especially those who are less fortunate. Donate money and items to charities. Volunteer at various non profit organizations and foundations. You can can also start your own philanthropy work.
7. Appearance: You body hygiene must kept clean (no body odor) by taking showers or baths, sponge baths are accepted, just lock the door when you're inside. Keep your skin moisturized with lotions, creams and oils and other natural moisturizers. Your clothes must clean by washing or dry cleaning, ironed, starch or press. Your shoes must be polished, the inner soles lightly sprinkle with foot powder to prevent odor. Brush and floss your teeth after every meal, and use anti septic mouthwash twice a day. Use anti antiperspirant deodorant that uses 24 hour protection. Keep your hair (also including wigs and hairpieces) washed moisturized and well groomed. Plan, mix and match your outfits and accessories accordingly ahead of time.
Take one principle at a time that you can work with. Once you master that principle, you can move on to the next principle to learn and practice. Keep up and practice each principle and you'll be able to develop the qualities of a diva.
Remember, you don't have to be rich and famous to be a diva, being yourself is what a diva is all about. Blessings.
1. Trendy
2. Poise
3. Attitude
4. Wisdom
5. Compassion
6. Charitable
7. Appearance
1. Trendy: Attend local fashion shows or make one up. Invest in purchasing fabrics patterns trimmings and crafts to create your own clothes and accessories. You can have some of your friends who are talented in fashion design or sewing to help do the work with you. Spend time in craft stores to create your own jewelry and accessories. Take classes on design in fashion, cosmetics and hair dressing. Purchase many drawing and sketch books or download programs to create your own style of clothing. Subscribe to fashion hairstyle and beauty magazines or websites. Use virtual makeovers to create new looks that match your style. Make friends with with local or aspiring fashion designers, makeup artists, hairstylists, tailors, and photographers (students who study these fields are more affordable).
2. Poise: Have some good posture while walking, sitting or standing (chests pushing forward, shoulders rolled back, tummy tucked in). Keep your head up high, facing forward. Sit with your knees together or ankles crossed ( absolutely, no legs crossed at your thighs if you're wearing a knee length skirt or dress). Smile with respect to every person you greet.
3. Attitude: Love and respect yourself as you are. Have some self confidence and self esteem. Walk proud. Think only positive thoughts and express only positive feelings. Never act snobbish and stuck up. Try reading some spiritual affirmations to inspire some self esteem. Take some lessons on etiquette.
4. Wisdom: You must take education seriously because knowledge and wisdom are power. If you're in school, put studies and homework before anything else. Never cheat on your tests and exams. Get a good mentor to help you stay on the right path. Get a tutor for extra help if you're struggling in school. Attending school on time that shows that shows that you're serious about your education. Study hard to pass all of your exams. Keep your grades high. Take all you have learned to heart to become successful in the long run.
5. Compassion: Respect everyone the way you respect yourself. Talk and be nice to people no matter how different they are from you. Don't lose your temper when someone makes a mistake on you. Never bully or push people around, blackmail them to get your way like mean girls do. Say only kind and positive words to people at all times. Make good compliments on what they do and accomplished and not on just what they wear. Proper language is important, negative language with profanity is not allowed regardless of where you come from and under all circumstances, avoid gossip.
6. Charitable: Always put people first, especially those who are less fortunate. Donate money and items to charities. Volunteer at various non profit organizations and foundations. You can can also start your own philanthropy work.
7. Appearance: You body hygiene must kept clean (no body odor) by taking showers or baths, sponge baths are accepted, just lock the door when you're inside. Keep your skin moisturized with lotions, creams and oils and other natural moisturizers. Your clothes must clean by washing or dry cleaning, ironed, starch or press. Your shoes must be polished, the inner soles lightly sprinkle with foot powder to prevent odor. Brush and floss your teeth after every meal, and use anti septic mouthwash twice a day. Use anti antiperspirant deodorant that uses 24 hour protection. Keep your hair (also including wigs and hairpieces) washed moisturized and well groomed. Plan, mix and match your outfits and accessories accordingly ahead of time.
Take one principle at a time that you can work with. Once you master that principle, you can move on to the next principle to learn and practice. Keep up and practice each principle and you'll be able to develop the qualities of a diva.
Remember, you don't have to be rich and famous to be a diva, being yourself is what a diva is all about. Blessings.
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